Don't decorate….. Design!
Make decisions that will improve the space, flow or functionality before all else. Think about and budget for all necessary physical changes, material purchases and all technical matters that will improve your home (including the best bed and sofa you can afford) before thinking about spending money on ‘decoration’. Even then I’d rather have money left over for good wine than be sat soberly regretting the expensive hand painted wallpaper.
Do employ a lighting designer
Lighting is everything. There's no point spending money on wonderful materials, finishes and furnishings if you can’t see them properly. Also the technology behind modern lighting is now so complex that a mere mortal can’t possibly get it right.
Don't be afraid of the dark
The best lighting schemes always incorporate areas of darkness. Uniform lighting levels are for operating theatres.
Do consider practical functionality before all else
Space in your home should be prioritised for those functions of your life that bring you pleasure (a dressing room) as well as those that cause you pain (a laundry room). Better a spacious bathroom than a spacious bedroom. Unless, of course, you intend to spend the whole day in the bedroom, in which case it will need a fireplace!
Do make a space to wash and dry the dog
An outdoor hand shower with a drain and just inside the door a towel rail above a radiator are essentials for keeping the newly upholstered sofa clean.
Do your research
Find out who are your best local suppliers, dealers and talented makers. Work with them wherever possible. A local antique dealer who stocks your regional style of furniture will bring the correct character to your home; certainly more so than hours spent scanning the internet.
Do commission as many things specifically for your home as you can
Work with makers you trust and with whom you can build a rapport. Listen to them if they say they can’t make a thing that size, shape or material. They know more than you. You’re not a joiner, metalworker or glass blower… they are.
Do be cautious when buying vintage furniture online
I would avoid buying furniture on eBay, 1st dibs or Vinted unless that is you know the dealer. There are way too many stories of people thinking the thing they’re buying was measured in centimeters when it was in inches or vice versa.
Do make sure that you’ve measured all points of access to your home or room before going shopping
It’s surprising how difficult it is to get that lovely custom made wardrobe into the dressing room (unless you swapped out the local maker with the local Ikea).
Do keep an accurate ‘finishes schedule’
Make sure you have a room by room record of all materials, finishes, paint, etc that you have used in your home with suppliers' details and any relevant reference numbers so that reordering is not a total disaster. The same goes for light bulbs, for which you should keep a big stock of any that are ‘no longer being made’. Replacing a lovely 25 watt incandescent bulb with a vile Warm White LED one will not give the same effect whatever the shop says. Ever.


